Becoming insecure over NDE Research

There have been various posts from a few different people ; mentioning something to the effect of NDE’s being way lower in frequency than it may seem. 

Combine that with Sam Parnia’s recent video that focuses on Jeff Longs 43 cherry picked NDE’s…

With the fact Parnia or related studies have not produced big numbers of NDE’s needed..

Remembering an old skeptiko episode where Alex called out PMH Atwater for fabricating research ..

And a few other things I forgot all of a sudden..

Maybe I’m just needing sleep .. but I feel like I’m doubting all sorts of stuff . What I thought more “solid” on.. not so much anymore .

Am I reading too much into things , accidentally cherry picking to validate my own anxiety ?? Or r we seeing some “holes” in some recent logic .. 

I don’t know ..

I don't understand why people concentrate so much on NDE's, practically ignoring SDE's, which seem to be much stronger evidence of survival, given that they occur in perfectly lucid people. SDE's have been researched by Penny Sartori, Peter and Elisabeth Fenwick and Raymond Moody, among others.